In a family drama that has attracted attention on Reddit, a woman shares with others that she tells her mother-in-law (a big fan of garlic) that from now on, not to cook inside, rather than outside the house.
cookingHowever, one psychotherapist pointed out that this may only be part of the problem here.
“I have had chronic migraines for over 20 years, and one of my causes is garlic,” the woman wrote on Reddit. “Once the migraine hits, I get sick, I Currently pregnant And can’t take any medications that can stop or help me with migraine. ”
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The woman said she and her husband “relocated my mother-in-law and brother-in-law to us so we could try to take care of his mom and help her retire and help me [brother-in-law] Stand up. ”
Although my brother-in-law is “good”, the woman added that she didn’t realize that my Mill would go Take over the house. ”
A frustrated woman wrote in Reddit (not shown) that once her mother-in-law moved into the house, “she wanted to cook for every meal” – now entering the couple’s room, “without notice, pick up our dirty laundry, make our beds, etc.” (iStock)
The woman said: “When we live alone, we did a good routine. [But] Once she moves in, she wants Cook every meal Will come [into] Our room suddenly announced to grab our dirty laundry room, make beds etc. ”
She added: “I cook anyway, she will be wise, my husband has two meals.”
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The woman wrote that her husband was “finally frustrated.”
He told her: “We know she means good, but we need some boundaries. He asked her to stop cooking too much and try to set other basic boundaries, [such as] No sudden entry into our room. He told her if she wanted to cook for herself [the BIL]that’s good, but we want Able to cook And make our daily work. ”
“When she cooks, it seems she goes out of her way to use as much fresh garlic as possible.”
The woman reported that this messaging was not very good.
“The next day she lost it and told my Bill, what my husband said, that I took my son away from her and controlled him, that she was the ‘patriarch’ of the family…that caused the whole family to sit down.”
“I finally felt good this morning and she started cooking with garlic,” a woman wrote on social media. (jakub porzycki/nurphoto via Getty image)
Now, the woman wrote on Reddit: “When she cooks, it seems she’s doing her best. Fresh garlic As much as possible. To reiterate, she knew it would make me sick, but she forgot every time.
The actions were “once a week, if not more frequent,” the pregnant woman wrote.
“Why did she do this? It almost feels purposeful at this point.”
“I’ve been having a migraine for the past two weeks and have been bedridden. This morning, I finally felt fine and could enter the living room and she started cooking with a ton of garlic.”
The woman said, “I finally snapped up and told her if she knew I was sick and because I was pregnant, I couldn’t take the medication, why would she do it? At this point, it almost felt purposeful.”
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The woman shared on Reddit that she returned to the bedroom, turned on the fan, and opened all the windows to “play it.”
She asked if someone else was wrong because she felt that she was doing it.
“You can tell her to cook outside the camping stove. Or you can talk to your husband about how she can surpass her welcome.” (iStock)
People on Reddit declared that pregnant women “not A-Hole” because she would feel her way.
One writer said: “You can tell her to cook in the camping stove. Or you can use it with Your husband about how she surpassed her welcome. You don’t have to let her move in, [it] It sounds like she needs to understand that this is not her house. ”
“Your husband needs to take all the garlic out of the house immediately.”
Another commenter said: “It’s time to give her a deadline to move… She’ll only get worse once there’s a baby in the photo.”
Many others seconded the final view that this could become more difficult once the couple’s baby is born.
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Another wrote: “She did it on purpose. If she can’t respect the basic health boundaries, she can definitely bring her garlic obsession outside. Your husband needs to step up more and make it clear that it’s impossible. Stay strong.”
Another said: “Take all the garlic out of the house. What you have is allergies.”
“She sounds very capable of taking care of herself, so I don’t understand why she needs to live with you now,” wrote a person on Reddit. (Silas Stein/Picture Alliance by Getty Images)
There is another Reddit user who is determined that the mother-in-law needs to be outside, away from the windows to cook, “Even if she doesn’t use garlic. The pregnant nose is sensitive and you don’t need any triggers. Are they aware that the harm to you is also a harm to the baby?”
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Jonathan Alpert, a psychotherapist and licensed counselor in New York, told Fox News Digital that family dynamics can be tricky, especially when expectations clash and people live under the same roof, which is not usually done. ”
He added: “Basics It may just be a deeper issue of respect, control or discomfort.”
“In today’s culture, we often quickly prioritize our feelings and desires, sometimes at the expense of understanding others.”
“In today’s culture, we often quickly prioritize our feelings and desires – sometimes at the expense of understanding others. This can reflect a broader social trend in which self-absorbing is the focus and therefore difficult to navigate Simple family interaction Don’t turn them into power struggles. ”
Alpert also said: “The key to solving such a situation is clear, compassionate communication.”
“It’s no longer a simple negligence when someone intentionally does something that can hurt your health,” said a clinical psychologist of the pregnant woman’s situation. (iStock)
“When someone intentionally does something that will harm your health over and over again, it’s no longer a simple oversight. Whether it’s passive attack or intentional, it’s painful and unacceptable.”
She said in this case: “It’s time to look back. It’s a good idea to say, ‘We appreciate everything you do, but garlic can’t be used in the house anymore. We need it to be a safe place. To me and the baby. ‘”
Garlic provides a lot Health Benefits Fox News Digital previously reported that people who consume garlic should eat moderately and reduce their intake if they notice “negative side effects”.
Over-consumption of garlic can have side effects, including garlic breathing, digestive problems, abdominal distension, stomach pain, gas and heartburn. (Ryan McFadden/Mentiannews Group/Read Eagle via Getty Images)
Usually, excessive consumption of garlic can have side effects, including garlic breathing, digestive problems, bloating, stomach pain, gas and heartburn.
As for garlic allergies, “can cause symptoms such as rash, hives and dyspnea,” according to the Cleveland Clinic.
“this Allergic reactions This happens when your body mistakenly believes garlic is a harmful substance. Avoiding garlic and adrenaline syringes (Epipen) for emergencies is a possible treatment. ”
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Garlic allergies are called “rare”. People are more likely to be “garlic intolerant” [rather] More than allergic. Healthcare providers can help determine if your symptoms are due to allergies or intolerance,” the Cleveland Clinic said.
Gabriele Regalbuto of Fox News Digital contributed the report.
